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How To Handle Frustration?

Very common yet unavoidable issue! Most of the people are diving deep into the situation, which takes them towards the disastrous journey of frustration. I am no doctor or counselor. Neither I am going to advise you any therapy for the handling of frustration. Only a few things based on real-life situations, that makes you feel like opting to get out of the frustrating part of your life.  First of all, you must have an idea of what is frustration? When you want to do something, but it doesn't happen due to any of the reasons.  Or when anything doesn't work as per your way, you feel that you are helpless. You start underestimating yourself or your positive thoughts. All your achievements get lost in that particular episode of, not able to make it. This stage occurs to everyone in life, no matter what and when. Some people are looking for an escape, however, others become the victim of the situation.  Frustration can decay even the strongest of personalities, ho...

Court Of Law Not Justice 7

Let's proceed towards the journey of justice, which seems to be unattainable for a common man in the present state of society. Since the whole system is designed in such a complicated manner, that if anyone tries to raise the voice; she only has to suffer hardships without any kind of mercy from the closest relationships even. People look at the victim in such a way, that she starts feeling inferior and as if she has committed a heinous crime.  In the quest of justice, which was invisible for her; she forgot her own self. All the pains starting from her physical ailments and ending up with painkillers regularly. She didn't recall her choices and stuff, which she used to like. Just that, she has to be alive for fighting the battle. In the past, she was not able to walk 10 steps even. Not because she couldn't walk, but then her situations were very good and positive. However now, she was walking for long distances and travelling by bus; which she never liked to.  T...

Turn Back The Wheel Of Time 2

Thanks, readers, for showing your interest in the life of Sandy and Paddy. Rather in the final stages of luck, that cannot be avoided by any means. The attraction of achieving the luxurious lifestyle has spoiled their lives, without any escape - they felt. In fact, most of the females are not able to live again after losing their respect and support from the family. Rather they don't approach their families, after going deep into the grey circumstances of life. Sandy was lured by one of her neighbours, who was providing beauty and fitness services to the models in casting couch with the silver screen. Sunny, who promised her to get the best soap opera of the leading TV channel. He took her to various places and presented the expensive articles, which she has never even touched in her life. She felt like she achieved the happiness of the world, through his company. She was ready to sacrifice everything, she said. But, was she aware what she needs to sacrifice? She found herself ...

Court Of Law Not Justice 6

Thanks for being a part of her journey to justice! In fact, this is not the story of a single female. Rather so many are dying waiting for justice, outside every courtroom. Where they are bound to forget their own identity, amidst the pressure and proceeding of law and the authorities. So many parents and a lot of children remain worried at home, for their daughters and moms. But, more than half of the married women are made to suffer without any fault of their own.  Every case file in the courtroom has its separate story, which takes ages to be concluded. Even when it's completed, it leaves so many questions unanswered - every dream broke - most of the future killed - maximum relationships burnt in the fire of circumstances. Like it happened in this case. She was just busy with the battle of getting justice, leaving her own self behind. Emotions, pains, happiness, peace, relationship and life; everything was far behind.  Even if she is awarded justice, what good it ...

How To Save Valuable Time?

Often heard and read, time never comes back. Save time! Don't waste your time! Value for time! But, how? Very small question, but little difficult to answer. Don't worry, I won't take much of your time. Bcoz for me, time is actually precious. I always try not to let it go, for something that doesn't deserve. How can we measure the worth of time? There is no measuring unit for the same. Just that, if you get anything more valuable than time, just leave the discussion here. I have seen the best and worst of life, all in the same birth. Trust me, it is difficult to digest happiness and tears, equally. But, what about the time which is going useless and could have been used in the better shape ; if thought earlier. Not for me, not for you, but for everyone - time is the same. However, it depends upon the person who's facing the time. How he handles it and chooses something else rather than time. You must be thinking that, why to stress so much about time? But this is...

Limitations Of Life

We often heard, about the limits of everything. But, actually what is the limit for anything? Also who decides for whom? Most of the time, it is being decided for the females. By the males attached to them. Or another female, who herself is restricted by someone else. But why do even these restrictions occur? Why can't each female live on her own terms? What stops her to wear what she wants? Who doesn't allow her to go wherever she wants to? How can she not eat her food with her liking? Along with some more questions to follow. In fact, endless questions to follow. Since life of every woman has become more or less, the same. That neither Let her die on her wishes. Nor allow her to live a peaceful life, in this world. We talk about the advancement of the society and modernisation. However, are we really developing in every aspect? Or only few portions of the society are developing? What about the mentality of the people, who are driving the things for, so called development? W...

What is Domestic Violence?

Hi, Don't worry friends! I'm not going to teach you law today. However I am going to make you aware about the realistic picture of life. That you must have seen, observed or unfortunately experienced; at one or another stage of life. In fact the situation is not a part of life, it is hell. The true picture of hell can be described, under the concept of domestic violence. The irony of our society is, that the creator of mankind has to bear every pain of humanity; in one or another aspect. Be it in the form of husband, brother, father, in laws or boyfriends; for that matter. Generally, we always attach violence with the beating or getting beaten by someone. However, is it restricted to only getting beaten or is there something else as well? I don't know much about Indian law and its sections. However as per my knowledge of the same and the vast experience of the people, whom I have met till now. I got to know that it covers so many other things which are not even considered...