Real stories, issues or problems and their solution.

Hopefully, Covid 19 will subside soon!  But what will happen post Covid? Will we get back to normal life? Yes, but it would take a long time to transform our life and habits. Since we have been in a constant process of changing for a considerable period of time. How can we expect to simply jump back to the usual routine? Human beings take time to adapt changes and then we live in our comfort zone. Again going back to the hectic lifestyle may be little difficult. Most of the employees have been working from home and students are studying online. Lying on couch or bed for extended hours has become quite normal. Even our physiques are also into lethargic mode. We hardly want to move until it becomes really necessary. Let us talk about the children, who have been into entertainment mood for months rather it may count to years. They have forgotten the basics and do not wish to write these days. However, it is going to be a major issue once the schools will reopen. A gap of 2 or more aca...

All of us are struggling hard to survive and manage our life during Covid. Did we think about the psychic of children? Do we even bother to make them comfortable? Is it normal for the children to cope up with the devastating situations? Unfortunately, No ! Are studies going to engage children in any interesting way? Is it going to ruin their life and future if they will not study sincerely in the present situation? What's the guarantee that they do not need to wear the spectacle, if they won't watch TV or Cell Phone for hours? In fact, there are a lot of questions that can haunt any normal mindset. But do we have any appropriate answer? May be the response varies from person to person. Some parents are quite concerned about the studies and strict routine of their children. At the same time, some of the parents are not wondering about the futuristic results. There are different people who carry different thought process and it impacts the upbringing of children. Though there is ...

Life gives second chance to everyone ! So, how my stressed friend could have not got one? She simply wanted to run away from the dark shadows of her past. For which, she was ready to do anything. However her only focus was to do the justice with her son's future. Every step she took was to climb ahead for her only reason of living. She has been struggling every single moment to fulfill her vision. Her ultimate goal was to provide a promising lifestyle and better career for her only son. One fine day, she created a profile on a famous shaadi site. She did it for the sole purpose of migrating to another country post marriage. She started getting messages and invites. But within few days she changed her mind and deleted it from the shaadi site. Surprisingly after a month, she received an email in her inbox at the time while she forgot about it almost and got busy in other struggles of her life. It was sent by a woman posing Harshita Bhalla , who was searching for a b...

Anxiety! What do we mean by anxiety? In fact, it emerges from the uncertainty of the future. When we fail to predict, acknowledge and expect something; we suffer with anxiety. Though we are aware that we cannot control or change any happenings rather mishappenings of future. However we keep pressurizing the thought process, feelings and routine life existing in present situation. Something that we develop ourselves are the expectation and mindset related to future, which we cannot handle when things are little contrary. Covid 19 has become one of the most unexpected situations across the globe. Not only the pandemic, but it could be any other medical emergency or natural calamities that can fall into this category. That is completely beyond control and manipulating the thought process along with the routine life of majority of the people. The concern arises when we want to know about the future, which is totally unpredictable and unexpected.  As a matter of fact, such feelings and ...

Change is the only permanent thing in human life! But how long it will take for the people to change their mentality? Today, everyone is in the habit of judging other people. Not to forget that the judgemental attitude is born from their own mindset. If they want they can look at girl and boy as friends, as siblings, as relationship and what not. They never want to know the exact connection between the two, rather want to keep analysing according to the set standard of the mind. You may be confused as what I want to express. I am talking about the people who have a specific thought process of judging other people irrespective of their own position and situation. Let me share an instance of the mindset where a lady sitting on the front desk of the hospital looks at the forehead of the patient to write her title in the prescription slip.  But when she is unable to make out that the visitor is married or unmarried, she asked about her age to analyze her marital status. Even after that...

Long journey! It took a long way for her to complete her battle, to stay at peace. She couldn't believe at once, when she returned to her home that her own destructor would not come at night. Even for so many days, she was under fear that he may arrive any time on the door. The only reason she chose for not to keep waiting for years for some amount of money, was that she was running out of her breathe. Domestic violence has become a pattern of her life, she wanted to break at any cost. The most important thing for her was to achieve the peace of mind and silence in herself. As she was going through Innumerable series of suffering, for more than 12 years. The time, that she could have spent in making of her lasting career or living as per her own wishes. But she gained the experience of lifetime, that encouraged her to advise a lot of people who may fall in the clutches of destiny due to their decision leading to domestic violence most of the time.  Now, when she can sleep and...

AIIMS is one of the best hospitals in India, that has been a great platform to produce the best doctors for the entire world. AIIMS is famous for world class free treatment. But you need to keep in mind, that it's not so easy to get admitted in AIIMS for any treatment. Even if you get the admission, you will face lots of challenges to get the bed. Its better to have some high level connections.. Normally there is a long list for waiting of 1500 patient. We should avoid AIIMS, unless its an emergency and we should consider AIIMS as  "last resort of life". When you go to AIIMS emergency , you will see a panel of doctors (Rejectors) who will decide the severeness of the patient's condition. If the patient can be cured with normal medication , you will be asked to bring the patient in General OPD and trust me it happens due to no beds available . Since AIIMS takes very serious patients, it is obvious that old patients are admitted for long term which is normal. If you ...

Miracles happen in this world! But who knows, when. When everyone loses hope, then the almighty appears from nowhere to help you with the ray of hope. It seems like God has written each word of destiny very carefully and balanced, when people get the results of their own deeds without any kind of delays or error. Though we would never understand the reasons and logic behind any such actions of God. We always keep the God in question, why everything wrong happens with me? While everyone was waiting for Shanky to come back in her senses normally. In reality, everyone has lost their hopes for looking her talk again like before. There occurs a stage in the life, when money doesn’t matter anything and everything at the same time. Her family members are not worried about the hefty amount of money, which is getting spent on her being alive. But they need to keep fuelling her life with a lot of money, since her condition was very worse. Her brother in the country has witnessed her uncons...

Hi Friends! Hope you are feeling the agony and pain by now. Every coin has 2 sides, however sometimes the positive one is overlooked due to the darkness of the negative effects of the grey side. Everyone wants to come out of the mess and live the beautiful life. Some people who are living a normal life, cannot even imagine the hardships of the sufferers. Same goes with the people, for whom life is only a struggle every moment. We're discussing the suffering and destiny of one of those, for whom normal life is non existence. Neither she was the one who can forget bad, nor the positive things of her life. The same thing happened, in the concerned situation. She was getting the support and advice from few professionals, who couldn't appear in her case ever. But, kept on guiding her at the background. She is highly indebted, regarding the lawyers and other people who have been providing her the way out. Her situation didn't let her trust, on any particular community or profess...

Beware of MLM / Network marketing business.  Your profile is being watched by some MLM companies or network. You never know that, you may get a call from some very known person (family relations or friend) and you may be asked with a huge amount to invest in a business plan. Since you trust on that person, you end up investing money on his or her request.   It is true that every business requires some investment, but it should be viable and practical. Network marketing/ MLM is a business, which is not made for all. You may be asked to join a meeting in a renowned place like CCD or Starbucks, To play with your mentality. So that, you can think that the company is trustworthy and you will be impressed ; with hospitality and gratitude.  A person earns money after a lot of hard work and saves it for future plans. Due to some reliable resources, if this MLM Network comes to know about you, you end up becoming a part of their trap. When you have some money,...

Hello females, Please be aware !! A scammer team or group of scammer people is watching your profile online. If you are looking for a would-be/ better half/ husband for you online, please read this recent and real story before you decide to go online and find a partner for your life. You must be wondering/ searching your husband online as you are habitual of buying things on cart :) and you go on the matrimonial websites like shaadi.com , matrimonial.com , bharatmatrimony.com But do you really think that your information is safe ; when you register on these websites? ...  Will you be able to get the right person online, or you are only going to be a customer for these companies?   I am not in oppose of any online portal because everyone is following the technology for ease and feast, but nobody can secure the privacy to an extent to save females. I recently uploaded my sister's profile online (shadi.com) and I was seeking a  better half for her. Many peop...

Health Is Precious Every human being remains keen to keep his health, in the most appropriate shape and form. However, in the world of competition and advancement, people tend to ignore their health and fitness; unknowingly. That makes you feel more prone to diseases and occurrence of depression, caused by the hectic life schedule. It is always better to maintain your health as your assets, irrespective of your age and field of work. So that you can easily keep working, in your day-to-day life and maintain your personal life too. Always remember that money can be earned anytime you want to, but health cannot be regained if lost once. Therefore, you must never forget the truth of life and remain careful for your valuable body parts.  Strategic Planning While you are deciding on the right course of action to work out, you must look for certain criteria to be met with the scheduled exercises that you must adhere to. Since it is not a good idea to exercise in the way, that can s...

Human beings are prone to being emotional, however, it is not an ideal way to survive. Then, how to control your emotions to live a balanced and satisfactory life. Though there is no guide or Wikipedia for the same. But you need to select the most appropriate manner, to have a balance of your emotions and practical life. Often said and heard, don't be emotional. How many of you, have actually been able to implement that?  Not really, anyone can be so mature and strong to handle the emotional situations. Since everyone has limitations of life . It becomes almost impossible to manage and maintain, the level of low moments. That makes you feel more upset and frustrated, at times. It not only damages the present state of mind and body. But also, destroys or lessens the chances of developing in the future.  No one can advise you how to control your emotions, but it can only be managed by self-analysis. You need to hold on to your feelings and thoughts, in order to make s...

You are right! We're discussing the institution of marriage, prevalent in the country. Do you think, the following generation can survive in the world of compromise? Actually, it's not about the compromise. The whole relationship is based on the trust and respect for another person. However, with the change in thinking and attitude. Everything is going to diminish very soon. Most of the couples are living in the suffocating environment, yet the majority of the people never gather the strength to voice out their opinion.  What will be the result? What my family will think about it? What will be the reaction of the friends? Will my relatives stop contacting us? Would my image be spoiled, among my peers and boss? Can I do my work myself, after separation? How will I survive with my family, without my spouse? Can I cook for myself ( in case of male partner)? How would I manage my home, after she goes away? Would I be able to earn my livelihood (in case of female partner)? Ho...

Regret or Guilt would have never existed if humans can go back in the past. To make the changes or undo what was wrong. However, it is something that doesn't exist in reality and can only be a dream - you can never realize. Some of the mistakes can be rectified, but some steps cannot be changed. For which, there are some ways to get it fixed. But, ending your life should not be the option. There is still a new chapter in the life , waiting for everyone.  There are so many girls, who easily get trapped in the attraction of high society glamorous life. Or the life that movies and modelling actress live. However, it is not easy to achieve the desired place in the attractive industries. Even if you get some chance to reach, it requires something more valuable than your life. You have to compromise more than you will receive.  Let's go to an apartment in the metropolitan city. Well furnished rooms and luxurious amenities, that can take you to the journey of heaven. ...